Judgment No. HB 42/2003

                                                                                    Case No. HC 84/2003

 

LAWRENCE CANNISIUS MAKUMBE

 

Versus

 

JOHN CHIKWENHERE

 

IN THE HIGH COURT OF ZIMBABWE

NDOU J

BULAWAYO 20 JANUARY & 20 MARCH 2003

 

Ms Tsarafor the applicant

Respondent in person

 

Urgent Application

 

            NDOU J:        On 20 January 2003 after reading documents filed of record,

 

hearing both Mrs Tsara for the applicant and the respondent (in person) and

 

interviewing the children subject matter of this application I made an order in the

 

following terms:

 

“1.       That for this first term of 2003 the two minor children, Tafadzwa and Tichaona attend Baines School, Northend, Bulawayo and during the said period be in the interim custody of their grandfather John Chikwenhere.

 

1. That the Department of Social Welfare, Bulawayo monitors the progress of these minor children and submit a report to this court for review of the order by the end of this school term.

 

1. That this order shall be reviewed during the first week after the end of this school term.

 

1. That the applicant shall be entitled to access the minor children on weekends on a fortnight basis commencing Friday 31 January 2003.

 

1. That there shall be nor order as to costs.”

 

I indicated then that my reasons for making the order will follow.  This

 

judgment provides the rational basis for the above order.

 

            The facts of this case are that the applicant is the father of the two minor

 

children.   Tafadzwa was born on 7 September 1992 and Tichaona 5 December 1994. 

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Mirriam Makumbe, the said children’s mother, is the respondent’s daughter.  The

 

applicant and Mirriam Makumbe were married to each other customarily from 1992

 

to 1997.  They separated in 1997 with Mirriam taking the children with her.  Until

 

2002, Mirriam had been staying with the children with the applicant paying

 

maintenance and school fees for the minors.  Around the middle of 2002, Mirriam

 

went to work in the United Kingdom.  She left the minor children with her younger

 

sister Cathrine.  At the time of her departure the applicant was out of the country on

 

military duties at the Democratic Republic of Congo.  When the applicant returned he

 

did not find anything “amiss” by this arrangement.  When he was free he took time to

 

visit the children at Cathrine’s abode.  Towards the end of 2002 Cathrine also left for

 

the United Kingdom leaving the children under the care of another sister, Betty.  The

 

applicant, due to his present marital circumstances, is unable to stay with the children. 

 

This is common cause.  He, however, feels that sending the children to boarding

 

school is the solution.   He is naturally concerned as a father that the children’s

 

performance at school is less than ideal.  The school reports filed of record show that

 

they indeed performed badly at school last year.  In a nutshell the applicant’s intention

 

is that the children will be boarders during term and stay partly with him and

 

partly with his parents during the holidays.

 

            During the December 2002 holidays the children came to Bulawayo to stay

 

with their maternal grandparents.  This arrangement was made with the agreement of

 

the applicant.  Meanwhile, the applicant had secured boarding places for the children

 

at Selbourne Routledge School in Harare with effect from the first term 2003.  He

 

paid the necessary fees for the boarding facility.  The children, however, did not

 

 

 

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return to Harare.  When the applicant investigated the reason he became aware that

 

they had instead been enrolled at Baines School in Bulawayo and were temporarily

 

staying with their grandparents.  It also became clear that their mother had in fact

 

purchased them a house in the low density suburbs of Queenspark, Bulawayo.  The

 

house was being furnished and they were just about to move into their house.  The

 

applicant is not happy at all about this development.  He feels that the children were

 

brought to Bulawayo under the guise of holidays for the purpose of frustrating his

 

efforts to have them in boarding.  He, consequently launched this application in which

 

he sought:

 

“Terms of Final Order sought

 

That you show cause to this honourable court why a final order should not be made in the following terms:

(a)        That the custody of Tafadzwa and Tichaona Makumbe be and is hereby awarded to the applicant.

(b)        That the respondent shall pay the costs of this application.

 

Interim Relief granted

 

Pending determination of this matter the applicant is granted the following relief:

 

1. The respondent is hereby ordered to produce and hand over Tafadzwa and Tichaona Makumbe to the applicant upon being served with a copy of this order.
2. The respondent shall allow the applicant to take the aforesaid children with him together with their clothing which he shall surrender to the applicant on service of this order.”

 

It is common cause that Mirriam is the custodian mother and applicant is the

 

non-custodian father of the children.  One of the orders sought is the reversal of this

 

position so that applicant becomes the custodian father.  Once he is declared the

 

custodian parent, the applicant, according to his evidence, will place the children in

 

boarding during term and with his parents during holidays, with him having access to

 

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them from time to time.  As alluded to earlier on, the applicant is not in a position to

 

stay with the children on a full time basis because of a situation created by a

 

subsequent marriage i.e. entered into after separating from the children’s mother.

 

            It is trite that this court has the common law power to look after the interests

 

of all minors, and if necessary, interfere with the exercise of parental power.  The

 

interests of the minor in such matters are always the decisive factor – see Fortune v

 

Fortune1955(3) SA 348(A); Jeche v Mahovo 1989(1) ZLR 364(S); Short v Naisby

 

1953(3) SA 572(D); September v Karrien 1959 (3) SA 687 (C); W v W 1981 ZLR

 

243; Maluwana v Maluwana HH-155-01 and De Montille v De Montille HB-6-03. 

 

On page 7 of his cyclostyled judgment in the latter case CHEDAJ stated:

 

“The interest of the child takes precedent over those of its parents.  In making a determination the courts should be guided by arrangements and facilities each parent has made for the child.”

 

            English authorities and literature refer to this as the welfare principle.  In our

 

jurisdiction the courts have qualified this principle by holding that the mother enjoys

 

built-in advantage in such matters.  The courts will not readily deprive the mother of

 

lawful custody without good cause shown – see More v Richardson 1974 (2) RLR 16;

 

Nugentv Nugent 1978 RLR 6 and De Montille v De Montille HB-20-03.  The

 

applicant seems to be concerned with the schooling side of his children.  This is what

 

forms his desire to have these children as boarders.   Such parental claims and

 

interests should, however, not overshadow the interests of the children.  The question

 

is one of relative weight to be given to the wishes and claims of the father against

 

those of the minor.  This involves a process whereby, when all the relevant facts,

 

relationships, claims and wishes of parents, risks, choices and other circumstances are

 

taken into account and weighed, the course to be followed will be that which is most

 

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in the interests of the child’s welfare – see J v C [1970] A.C. 668.  The court has to

 

take into account the child’s need for stability and continuity, not only in relationship

 

with parents, but also in physical surroundings, school, friends, brothers and sisters

 

and relatives – see Re (a minor) (custody of child) (1980) 2 FLR 163 and B and B

 

(custody of children)[1985] FLR 166.  These principles are all relevant to the present

 

application.

 

            Further, I interviewed both minors separately and in the absence of the parties

 

(and relatives).  In casu, it appears that the applicant wishes to have the children cared

 

for by their paternal grandparents and the custodian mother wishes them to be cared

 

for by the maternal grandparents.  Each parent naturally believes that his or her own

 

parent will properly look after the children.

 

            The custodian mother of the children is working outside the country.  She has

 

handed over the children to the grandparents i.e. the respondent.  This conduct of the

 

mother has drawn brash criticism from the applicant.  Should the mother be deprived

 

of her custody of the children simply because she went to the United Kingdom

 

leaving the children in the care of  a third party?  I do not think that this is, per se, a

 

sufficient justification to deprive the custodian parent of her or his custodial rights.  I

 

am justified by what GOLDIN AJA stated in W v W case (supra) at 248B,

 

“I do not agree that her conduct in handing over the child to his grandmother under strained economic and emotional situation in which she found herself has rendered her an unsuitable person so as to justify depriving her of the custody of the child.  It only shows that she was concerned for the child and in the circumstances considered that it would be to his advantage to be with his grandmother until she surmounted her problems.”

 

            Here the mother of the children has gone outside the country, according to the

 

children themselves, to work in order to improve their lot.  The children proudly

 

informed me that their mother has since bought them a house and arrangements are at

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an advanced stage for their relocation to a home of their own.  The home is close to

 

their maternal grandfather i.e. respondent’s house.  The house is also close to where

 

the respondent has enrolled them.  It is not seriously disputed that the children are

 

happy with their maternal grandparents who are devoted to them.  The maternal

 

grandparents are there for them.  All this comes from the horses’ mouths, as it were. 

 

The children feel that this environment is conducive for improvement in their

 

academic work.  The children are distressed by the mere mention of the boarding

 

facilities that their father secured for them in Harare.  One of the children was, in any

 

event, a boarder at the same school previously and is vigorously opposed to going

 

back there.

 

            There is not much said about the paternal grandparents.  The tragedy of this

 

case is that the applicant, who is the children’s father, and the only parent living in

 

Zimbabwe, is not able to assume the responsibility of having their custody because of

 

his current family set up.  He cannot stay with children at his home.  He wants them to

 

shuttle between boarding school and his own parent’s home.  As the upper guardian

 

of all minors, this court always has the power in a proper case to deprive parents of

 

custody and award this right to a third party, usually a relative – see W v W supra at

 

pages 246H to 247A; Short v Naisby supra at page 575.  In W vW at page 247B-G

 

GOLDINAJA admirably emphasised the point in the following terms:

 

“The power to award custody to a third party does not involve or justify the adoption of a test or approach that anybody concerned becomes a candidate or claimant.  Compared with parents, grandparents and other many often be able to provide superior material advantages and unlimited time and attention, they may also be endowed with greater wisdom and patience.  These attributes and assets would not, however, entitle them to custody in competition with natural parents who may not possess the same advantages.  In deciding what is in the best interest of a child the court generally has regard to relative merits only of the parents.  Grandparents are considered useful baby-sitters and a source of

 

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when natural parents or a surviving parent are held not to be proper persons to whom to award custody.  The natural affinity and emotional bond and

help in times of need or mere convenience.  They are also “first reserves” attachment between parent and child are generally irreplaceable and an accepted fact of life.  Such as association benefits and promotes a child’s emotional security and feeling of normality, whilst the award of a child’s custody to a third party places him in a distinctly unusual or abnormal category.”

 

 

A court will only deprive a natural parent of custody and award it to a third

 

party upon special grounds.  Such special grounds include detrimental or undesirable

 

effects or influences upon the physical, moral psychological or educational welfare of

 

a child.  The test is still not whether a third party can provide better materially or

 

possesses more desirable attributes, but whether the parent or parents should be

 

deprived of custody for any reason involving harm or danger to the child’s welfare as

 

mentioned above (see Calitz v Calitz, 1939 AD 56; Short v Naisby (supra) at page

 

575; Hossford v de Jager and Another 1959(2() SA 152 (N) at 154; Petersen and

 

Anotherv Kruger and Another 1975 (4) SA 171(C) at 174.”  See also Ex parte

 

Walton 1969 (2) RLR 133

 

As indicated above, the mother is the custodian parent.  The applicant is the

 

non-custodian parent.  He seeks to reverse this application.  As the upper guardian of

 

the two children this court has to rely to the welfare principle in the resolution of this

 

custody dispute.  These children are not only enrolled at Baines School in

 

Bulawayo.  They have already started attending lessons and this court should be

 

careful not to further disrupt their already disrupted lives.  The psychological and

 

educational factors amount to special grounds to award the custodial rights to the

 

respondent.  I do not think that it is in the interests of the children to take them from

 

 

 

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Baines School and place in the boarding school in Harare.  Such an order will be

 

inconsistent with welfare of these children.  They will certainly be devastated and

 

their academic performance may deteriorate further.  From what the children told me,

 

this may further strain the natural affinity and emotional bond and attachment

 

between them and the applicant.  Already the children believe that the applicant does

 

not love them and does not devote sufficient time to them.  This may be a wrong

 

perception on their part, but the bottom line is that their father and child relationship is

 

currently less than ideal.  This court, as upper guardian, should ensure that they work

 

towards restoration of the harmonious father and child relationship.  There is a

 

probability, if this matter is not handled properly, that these children will adopt  belief

 

that their real father, the applicant, is an unworthy person who abandoned them

 

without just cause for another woman.  Such a scenario is not in the best interest of

 

children in the long run.

 

Due to time and human resource constraints I was unable to obtain an expert

 

opinion of the social worker on the best interests of these children.  My order

 

endeavours to address this.  Regard must be had, however, to the right of the applicant

 

to have access to the children, notwithstanding his unfortunate incapacity.  This in

 

itself emphasises the importance that has to be attached to the relationship between

 

these children and their natural father, the applicant.

 

In applying these legal principles to the facts of the case I arrived at the

 

decision referred to in the opening paragraph of this judgment.  In the circumstances,

 

these are the reasons for the order that I made on 20 January 2003.

 

 

 

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